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Sunday, February 12, 2006

Acceptance.

Admitted, you are irreplaceable. Admitted, there are no simple answers when it comes to you, when it comes to us. Admitted, this is unconditional. Admitted, not everything has to be black and white. Admitted, we are both extremely different yet somewhere deep inside, share the same marrow. Admitted, we are both complicated, complex individuals. Admitted, no one can test our patience more than each other. Admitted, no one understands us better than each other. Admitted, we can’t go a day without biting each other’s head off. Admitted, the best music is that which you make. Admitted, no song sounds the same again once you’ve sung it. Admitted, I don’t read aloud to anyone like the way I do to you. Admitted, no one makes me laugh the way you do. Admitted, I am too damn difficult for you to handle. Admitted, you are too damn complacent for my liking. Admitted, a tomorrow without you seems inconceivable.

Admitted, it can’t get any worse. Admitted, it can’t get any better.

It ain’t gonna happen. Accepted.

9 Comments:

  • are you telling me that you give up.actually..its not a battle so there is no question of giving up or not..sometimes we should be proud of the fact that so many things, such simple things exist between two people and it cannot be denied..
    so here is to the people we have..who we have had the honour to know, to be with and to have loved them unconditionally and admittedly with grand acceptance

    By Blogger ~meyum & a half~, at Sunday, February 12, 2006 8:24:00 PM  

  • smiple things exist,but we complicate them.
    we call it 'unconditional' then put conditions and bind with names that which can not be named or explained.
    we accept that which exists, but deny all that could exist.
    we can never "give up" on such a relationship, but there comes a point when we accept that which will not happen, due to the myopia of either one involved.
    Just not teh kind of person who will make someone realize the significance of that which they are giving up on, if they cant see it, i wont make him cuz deep down i will never be able to live with that fact. It has to make SUCH a tremendous difference in someones life that they are COMPELLED to do something about it out of their own free will, and if not then so be it, accepted. a detour towards this one-way street would be no fun, so i continue going straight ahead on this parallel running and safe street.

    By Blogger expressome, at Sunday, February 12, 2006 11:12:00 PM  

  • Acceptance is not surrender. Is it?

    In my world, acceptance is a step forwards. Towards what? Who knows.
    Closure perhaps, perhaps understanding.
    But it is a step forwards nonetheless, and where feelings that overwhelm our soul are concerned, its a step well worth taking.
    I suppose congratulations are in order?
    Or would you rather settle for an initialed hankie that will wipe the tears you've never cried just because it holds a promise you've never believed in.

    By Blogger Phitaymaun, at Thursday, February 16, 2006 1:11:00 PM  

  • hhaaahh....u voice my unspoken thoughts.
    I dunno what it is...and i thank u for both the congrats and teh hankie, i dunno just when I might need either!=)
    AT times we should be glad for all that is, instead of all that can be. for now and forever i guess, Im glad for that.
    And u r right on the mark about feelings taht overwhelm the soul, at times it feels like such a relief to have had them voiced, understood, done and over with, even though teh other may have taken all that u said in another light and failed to grasp the profoundness in all that was voiced....but at times..i guess its ok. a break from the mind is what we all need once in a while.

    By Blogger expressome, at Thursday, February 16, 2006 4:25:00 PM  

  • nicely written :)
    an echo of my own thoughts
    relationships defined as such are probably the strongest :))

    By Blogger mayya, at Monday, February 20, 2006 12:17:00 AM  

  • thanks mayya.

    By Blogger expressome, at Monday, February 20, 2006 6:03:00 PM  

  • " It has to make SUCH a tremendous difference in someones life that they are COMPELLED to do something about it out of their own free will, and if not then so be it, accepted." --- I cudnt agree More wid this statement of urs. :)

    this is soo ture. acceptance is not surrending.. n vise versa.

    I have Accepted many things in life but havnt surrendered to them. its jus acceptance, making space for sumthin u dunt want.. but its there to stay no matter wot, so u jus.. let it be.

    i have been MADE to surrender to a lotta thingz, sum may name it as "horrible thingz" -- but dat dznt mean u shud let it dominate u n and let it shake Your Will and make u Accept ur devastating enviornment and da way thingz are done. u always hold tht Faith in urself.. in Allah ji.. tht sumday ur idea of not giving up.. ur Belief.. will make u Achieve.

    sorry- ur words jus made me drift a bit off topic..

    but i lykd da way u put those things in words.. those undescribable thingz, moments u share wid sumone.. who, u knw wud neva be prince who will sweep u off ur feet or woteva.. n take u away to a cosy happy ending. lolz..

    we make life soo complicated as we grow ..

    :) ciao!

    By Blogger M, at Sunday, February 26, 2006 7:06:00 PM  

  • so many accepteds. you trying to convince yourself and move on?
    oh thank God there is no craziness in my life for once!

    By Blogger Ent, at Friday, April 14, 2006 3:11:00 AM  

  • By Anonymous Anonymous, at Monday, February 05, 2007 4:46:00 PM  

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