Jab hum khud complicate kartay hain...and then take the decision to go ahead even with the complications because the basis of it all is too strong to let go off, the complications can forgotten and gotten rid of, but whatever lies underneath it all is not worth letting go off and accept kartay hain kay haan issues hoon gay magar koi baat naheen, I will deal, we will deal...then we shouldn't complain, not even to ourselves.