Ruckshaw Ramblings
Spotted on the backside of a Rickshaw…
“Pyar kar key daikh, Pasand apni apni, Naseeb apna apna”
If loving someone is such a great feeling, if it makes you content in most ways, knowing there is someone you can spend the rest of your life with and not get bored…accepting that you can’t imagine yourself with anyone else then why does not “Naseeb” (fate) work out in ways that suit what the heart desires?
I know…I know…I believe in meant to be as well. God knows what He is doing… but still….
Why it does it have to hurt so much?
“Pyar kar key daikh, Pasand apni apni, Naseeb apna apna”
If loving someone is such a great feeling, if it makes you content in most ways, knowing there is someone you can spend the rest of your life with and not get bored…accepting that you can’t imagine yourself with anyone else then why does not “Naseeb” (fate) work out in ways that suit what the heart desires?
I know…I know…I believe in meant to be as well. God knows what He is doing… but still….
Why it does it have to hurt so much?
11 Comments:
Stop believeing in meant to be and it will stop hurting.
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Phitaymaun, at Friday, August 26, 2005 12:25:00 AM
WAT IS RONG WITH URE BLOg???!!! I HAVE BEEEN TRYINg to comment onit since 5 DAYS now!!!! it is soooo frustrating and my own blog wanst opening up...khair tha was also an issue withthe connection but STILL.....here is one comment i saved....roteit teh day u posted the "just dun wanna" wala post.
Here:
What the hell do you do??? Live in my head???
ALL evening I TRIED explaining that same thing to my sis-in-law….good god….u r SCARING me!!
Too much to say….Id rather just observe silence. You must already know what I’ll say. Scary.
and btw, really sorry to hear about teh robbery and much more on hearing wat happened after.
and ya...in reply to this comment: well I NEED to belive in meant to be in order for things not to hurt...cuz watever is menat to be will be not matter how much or how lttle i try...That is the only thing that i cna turn to
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expressome, at Friday, August 26, 2005 5:33:00 PM
it has to hurt so much so it can feel so good afterwards...so ive been told : )
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blindside the goldfish, at Saturday, August 27, 2005 1:38:00 AM
hmmmm, so i suppose its sfa eto assume that you don't plan on getting hitched any time soon either huh?
Good for you :D Its best to keep one's options open instead of giving in to a pressure that we don't even really subscribe to.
As for teh menat to be part, its your faith and i dun wanna shake it. I just think its an excuse that we turn to when we find that whatever we do is not enough to get what we wanted. I'd rather accept the responsibility and say hey i tried my darndest and if still wasn't enough than good riddance cuz i cudn't do anymore. My reasons for not believeing in meant to bes are based on too much experience than can be recorded in a comment or even a post but one of these days i will try. The only thing is that i feel we associate too much responsibility with god and fate and stuff that we know we can fall back on when all else fails,. Nothing wrong with that but its just sort of an escapist attitude towards a life that was never promised to be fair to us anyway. We must toil and yet earn no rewards sometimes, and the other times we try not at all and yet end up with heaven at our feet. Life is random. Life's a bitch. There are no miracles, no meant to bes just us with our desires which are often to far fetched to be harnessed in reality anyway. Calling it not meant to be is one way of looking at it. I'd rather hold mortals responsible for my mortal angst. But then again, thats just me. You maybe right, i maybe right there's no way of knowing before hand. The only thing we can be sure of is how hard we try to obtain things that matter to us. Why invoke divinity into personal matters?
Khair, thing is, we chose what helps put our minds at ease, i personally find teh idea of not really being in control of my life a little scary so i choose instead to believe in fucking up more than being fucked over.
Hope my blog lets you in next time you try. Till then, i can access yours so lets keep in touch here.
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Phitaymaun, at Saturday, August 27, 2005 11:44:00 AM
it hurts yes, very much so but thats because we dont have the option of opening ourselves to the world blowing dhuan in other peoples face and phatpatoing off..we choose to stay, think look feel and feeling the hurt is the only thing that can make the hurt go away. the two extremes in life.tension and release
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~meyum & a half~, at Sunday, August 28, 2005 10:48:00 AM
Sajjad, ure blog HATES ME! =~(
IT just wont let me COMMENT!!!! IT IS TEH most frsutrating things in the world.....does it have anything to do with teh fact that u have like a million posts on one page and as soon as i press the comment link it goes bonkers...doesnt show anything at all!
and ya....about meant to be...u do everythingin ure control and THEN u leave it up to God or whomever u belive in and then say ok...now I have done my best, the rest is up to You. Do whatever is best in my favor. That is just the way I function....in my dictionary its called having faith, do ure best, to God leave all the rest. DOenst have to make sense...it does to me..=)
Crazy days...like i said...not just work wise...but family life, social life....everything is just absolutely MAD! hectic days ahead...will write as soon as i can.
Meyum: i think i get some of it now...;)
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expressome, at Wednesday, August 31, 2005 9:27:00 PM
wht the hell! why wud it keep u of all people from commenting?
Thts just plain wierd. But i think its more than just you, teh comments seem to have dreid up on my blog altogether, even though it works fine for me... does take a little while though. Maybe if you wait till teh entyire page is loaded and then try it might work.
One menat to be, you're entitled to your security blanket, i'm entitled to mine. I guess it would take both our schools of thought to keep teh world an interesting place. If it were all me the world wud be completely cynical, all you, and all we'd have if rainbows.
;)
Good luck with teh business of life. Keep us posted.
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Phitaymaun, at Friday, September 02, 2005 11:00:00 PM
It has to hurt so much? But wjen will the "afterwards" come by?
*Perplexed*
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uXuf, at Wednesday, September 07, 2005 1:43:00 AM
dont know anything about any afterward.
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